the team
Hi I'm Becky and I'm Aggressively Helpful
My name is Becky. I'm a mom of two human kids and two fur kids, I'm obsessed with musicals, expensive coffee makes me feel better and I'm still absolutely in love with wedding days. I delight in all the special details of your wedding that makes it uniquely you and I live to make every part of your day photo ready. I still cry at first looks, father daughter dances, mothers standing behind their daughter's at vidaai and the signing of the ketubah. I care deeply about the guest experience and want to ensure the flow of the day keeps all our beloved family and guests happy, while still always keeping an eye on grandma to make sure she's comfy and has a glass of whatever she needs at all times.
Where did my tagline "aggressively helpful" come from? One of my brides! After watching me work a room she looked at me and told me she's never seen anyone as aggressively helpful as me. If it needs to be done, whether you ask it or not, I’m doing it. When you ask for ideas, I'll come to you with options and suggestions and a plan to make it happen. I want you to have no clue how everything got done. You should be living in the moment not worrying about a checklist. I want you to truly be present on such an important day of your life and bless and release all the specifics to me.
The A and B of ABR Events
We're Anthony and Becky Rodstein and we make up the perfect team. Becky is the lead planner: she's in charge of the planning, timeline, details, taking care of you and your family and making your day run smoothly without you ever knowing how. Anthony is our contracts manager and day-of assistant: he's in charge of keeping your vendors accountable to you, and doing everything Becky says on the day of your wedding.
We love running these days together. We've got a shorthand that just works and we share the same work ethic that makes the day run smoothly. You'll see us give an extra squeeze of the hand during vows because it always feels special to be together while we witness your beautiful moments.
We also have a full team of assistants that we use depending on the size of your wedding. They're equally as helpful and hardworking. It's a must to be part of the team.